love it!

I think it's all about a little thing call communication. If you are afraid of the TRUTH then stay single. Tell what you really feel, and not what you expect someone wants to hear or what some one told you. Everyone is unique (female or male), so you got to learn the person you are with and make sure they want the TRUTH. I've found being True to my self and my wife we have a pretty good life. I accept that I live for my wife now and not for me and vice versa. So we have such a strong friendship bond that if all else fells we are friends first so we can be honest and the things that are felling can get repaired. If you really LOVE some one you cant say "I love you enough to lie to you" cause if you really loved them you wouldn't want the truth hidden from them. Now lest not be ignoraunt you still have to be tackfull and not disrespectful. A women is very graceful if you let her be a women. STOP thinking the grass is greener on the other side it may look good but you be so blinded that you run over there and fall into a big a** hole. When all you had to do is water your own grass and you would have seen the beauty of it the same beauty that you realized that was there from the begining. iI just don't get it some time people its very simple you can do what ever you want long as its ok between the both of you. I love my wife not to death do us part but after death if GOD says I can still have her I will still LOVE her. Well let me end it here before i write a book on this subject and i have even scratched the subject yet

Maybe somebody should say "Don't try too hard." If you're overweight or clumsy don't go for the pole....it will backfire on you.

This should apply to both partners. Try to keep your physical shape. Don't obsess on it; it's only the icing on the cake but who wants cake without icing? And if you don't, it at least appears that you are insensitive to your partner's needs. The important thing is to be connected enough to know what your partner needs, what is lacking, and being thoughtful enough to provide that, whether you understand it or not.

Just cook me dinner in your birthday suit & high heels & i'm good to do whatever my wife wants!!! Been doing this for 12 years...

true, learn some tricks

how to keep ur hubby happy--only one rule there,ladies--BE YOURSELF. he fell in love with you enough to marry you,right?so why change a good thing?be who you are,dont change anything,cuz thats actually more likely to push a guy away..

I am just wondering how come it is always about keeping our husbands happy.....what about How to keep your Wife happy,........

and as for this chick,what makes her an expert??either she is UNMARRIED or has been married more than once..either way apparently she couldnt/cannot keep her man happy so why she tryin to give advice on the subject???

I saw Niecy Nash on a wife swap show and I would like to know why anyone would listen to her advice. She is self-centered and is only interested in making Niecy happy. After about 10 minutes of her I would run screaming as far and as fast as I could. And to answer the question below what about keeping your wife happy. That is impossible. As soon as you figure out what makes her happy she changes it.

here one for the ladies to think about !!!!1

@ Jennifer

Thank you for mentioning to women that men can't read thier minds. If women can't read our minds as simple as we are. What the hell makes them think we can read thiers?!
Also, thank you for telling women to say thank you when we do something right and I'm sorry when they do something wrong. Almost nothing is worse in a relationship than one ungratefull, insecure, and stubborn person who can't admit they are wrong. If you ever get into an inevitable disagreement it just builds resentment, and nothing EVER gets solved.

hmmm wheres the how to keep your wife happy video for men?

Why do experts ask women how to keep men happy instead of just asking MEN ?

I love, Love, LOVE these "Let's Talk About Love" videos. Niecy needs a 1/2 hour show talking about these things...Luvs it!

If a woman is with a man who needs a pole in the bedroom, then please be assured that he's gonna find someone else's pole, and someone else's moves prettier than hers.

Great job, "Yahoo!". None of the these videos are "available" to watch.

Some men are weak by the sight of a women and therefore they forget their wife and kids, and again try to come back. But as the time and stress involves a women also changes her mind to be with him. What do you think and What is your advice?

having sex when u dont feel like it and theres nothing in it for you just to be of service to your man? lady, go back to middle ages where you came from!

1. Decisions have consequences.
2. Don't judge all men because of a bad experience, as the same way we can't judge all women out of one (1) bad relationship. Be honest, wise, and Smart
3. Keeping Good Looks is important (68% of happy marriages women care of their appearances and worked out, maintained a healthy weight & figure - sorry big people that what statistics says)
4. DON'T TALK TOO MUCH. Relax, listen for an exchange.
5. Fit in his shoes... (we all know what this means - look from some other perspective)
6. DO NOT COMPARE A with B, i.e. "you are all exactly the same" (see #2)
7. Count to TEN (10) FORGIVE & FORGET. We ARE NOT perfect, so you neither.
Thanks for your attention

I'd like to know why more than 99.99% of these articles is about men; what men want, how to please men, how to keep them happy, etc.? Men are 1/2 of the relationship, so 'their' happiness isn't all that should be considered. Furthermore, if everyone is looking at the articles for all of their how-to 'lessons', then either the men aren't talking, the women aren't listening, or the women are ignoring because it's all one-sided.