Some time it really does just start out as a fling. I was not looking for a serious relationship at alll when i met my now boyfirend of a year and a half. He wasn't looking for anything real either. We were both just looking for some fun. I love him, he loves me. That is never what we were planning. So you never know what something harmless is going to turn in to.

You're literally out seeking pain, trust is one of the main parts of the foundation. Keep building and nourishing to a stronger healthy relationship

I wouldn't go through un-neccessary changes, if I just happen to come across it then its history. I'm from the old school what you shall seek you shall find. Where is the trust

the woman on the left was on millionaire matchmaker... she was crazy on the show, but she seems normal here

Hi Niecy, I would like to see you talk to divorce women or/and those that are separated. Give some advice on, how to be a better wife, what mistakes were made....how to get out of the marriage... something on that line.
When you have been married more than 2 times and the third was diffinitely the wrong one...something is wrong. Now I do agree with one of your advice..."that you have to be careful of what you have chosen because it might be something in you....

Hi Niecy I would like to see you talk about interracial relationship

This should be on TV. I love Niecy!! and i love this show

my husband overheard me talking to my girlfriend (before we met) and she was saying that she slept with someone on the second date. I said it was all good if that is what she wanted as well. She didn't trust my opinion. I turned to my now husband and said, "excuse me". He answered with 2 dates. Later that night we exchanged numbers. I was sweating bullets on our second date. Well I didn't give it up until I knew it was going someone. Before I knew it I was asking him if it were our second date yet. This was 2 months later and about 7 months later we moved in and married and had kids. It is now 7 years later and we are still happily married. There is no certain time to put sex on the table. It is when you are both comfortable and ready.

my husband and I had a hook up in 1985 we lived together 7 years married in 1992 we raised 5 kids and are still together to this day. and the kids were his 3 and my 2 still love each other very much today

Shiiiiiiit....A women doesnt wanna give it up till we give them a commitment but i dont wanna give a commitment till i get some....why commit to a women who could be lousy in bed

sadly, they're all right. if ur looking for somethin serioius and u hook up too soon, the relationship (if it even gets to that level) becomes completely based on sex and u basically just become glorified fwbs... I've made that mistake many a times and can't seem 2 learn from it. lol. sad.... but true... :/

my 2nd wife left me and opened up to ger friends, word of mouth advertizing was great, I never got so much. it was great Linda, thank you.

Really? A booty call is personal choice...you know what you want and what the end game is....realtionships are one thing, getting groovy is another.

Well it's like purchasing a luxuary automobile, you better test drive before you buy! But also make sure the test driver is a serious buyer , not a poser!

ask the kardashian sisters

On my wedding night I asked my father for advice and he told me to take the biggest thing I've got and put it where she pees. I called him later and said my foot was caught in the toilet and what do I do now?

Host Niecy Nash chats with women about when to "give up the good stuff."
Honestly why is it that the lady holds the key to the good stuff?? The good stuff is the act between the two parties. It’s always funny when woman say guys only want sex... well no crap, when you act like you have a pot of gold in your pants, obviously that is going to be seen as your best asset. If woman want respect they need to stop acting like their lady parts are lined in gold and start to rely on some of their other traits like personality, humor, accomplishments, goals… so forth. If you respect yourself and who you are it won’t matter when you “give it up”

Marriage definetly.

do they actuually expect us to take this article seriously? its title is giving it up. sounds more like way to be a tramp and not feel like being one.

Wait until after dessert, then jump him!